I need to do some serious work on my elevator speech for Dave in the Shack, namely writing
one. The realization that I have no coherent
description of what I’m doing here came about this way.
I was at a fundraiser for a local candidate and was introduced
to one of the women that urged the candidate to run. My friend introduced me as “a writer. Dave writes a blog. He’s going to write about (the aspiring and
emerging politician.)”
“Oh really? What’s
the name of your blog?”
Apparently sometimes the name of the blog gives one a clue
as to what it’s about. Food blogs,
political blogs, travel blogs, all descriptively and discreetly named.
“Dave in the Shack.”
“So what do you write about?”
Pause.
“Whatever I want.”
She looked puzzled.
“Fiction or non-fiction?”
Pause.
“Well it’s typically based on things that happen. But I take
license. And sometimes I write straight
fiction. Creative non-fiction might
describe it.”
Not a single spark of understanding appeared on her face.
“Do you write about politics?”
“From time to time. I
spent some time in Springfield directly working to increase funding for kids
and families. So I’ve been involved in
the process. But I write about a lot of
other things.”
She looked at me blankly.
“Yeah. Well I’ll have
to check it out.”
My guess is she hasn’t.
Nothing I said would have made her want to. My elevator speech, a succinct one minute
summary, never materialized.
So what is Dave in
the Shack about? Good question.
It’s written in the first person and that person is me. The opinions expressed in Dave in the Shack
are mine. I think you all know
that. A friend once asked if I have a
long list of things I want to write about and check them off one by one.
Nothing could be farther from the truth. I generally write about moments I recently live which seem meaningful. I try to
explain them to you, hoping they may
also be meaningful to you. I admit that once in a while I do things
deliberately so I can write about the experience. I describe people I meet, conversations that
happen, things I end up thinking about.
Still pretty non specific isn’t it?
Let me try again.
I started this blog while I was the director of a youth
service/child welfare agency. At that
time it was named YSB update. I had a pretty clear
purpose then. I wanted to write in a way
that would create empathy and understanding, perhaps support, for the children
we served and their parents. Along the
way I wanted to illustrate how hard my staff worked, what good members of my
volunteer board did to help our cause, how much public policy on the state and
federal level affected people in the communities we served. I tried not to swerve too far out of that
lane, although I admit I got personal at times.
When I retired I began writing Dave in the Shack.
It was liberating. I was not
longer the spokesperson for an organization, I was a guy writing from a shack
about anything he wanted. On the blog
page I say “writing from a small place in a changing world.” I suppose I try to note change, convey the
struggles of working to keep up with a flood of news and information, in a world
which we know so much more about but understand less. But there’s more to it than that.
Although I’m retired and work, for money that is, barely at
all (as an election judge I am paid each time there is a local election.) I’m still doing things. I volunteer, directly and as a board member, attend
church, live in a community. I have time
now to think about what’s going on around me and observe life and its
interactions in, sometimes in detail. It’s
a good thing to do. I recommend it.
And as I live that life I encounter people, events, experiences,
that are so touching, or important, I think they should be recorded and
shared. Not forgotten. Things that can be used to inform others, you,
my readers.
And so that is mostly what I write about. Noteworthy aspects of everyday life.
I remember overhearing staff in the kitchen at YSB in the 90’s
talking about TV shows. I rarely watched
TV then, or since. They were talking
about “Seinfeld” which I had heard of but never seen. Naively I asked a question“What’s that show about?”
They all started laughing.
Apparently, there had been an episode that revolved around just that. One of them managed to say
“Nothing!”
and then they laughed
again. “Seinfeld” was a comedy that
centered around the everyday lives of a
group of people living in New York apartments.
The episodes could be and were, about seemingly everything and in turn
nothing in particular.
I hesitate to say Dave
in the Shack is about nothing.
But then again, it can be about anything. “Seinfeld” was at least always funny. This blog has been about music, food, social
work, making peanut brittle, road trips, politics, farm life, animals, whiskey, you name
it. Sometimes it makes readers laugh and sometimes cry.
Sometimes I write a blog and from your comments,
I find my readers react to something else.
Last week I wrote about a tender moment between siblings. I was cooking eggs to order in the local homeless
shelter and in the course of interacting with two kids, who could well have
woken up to their first morning in a public shelter, one of those moments happened. As I talked to them, coaxing an egg order
from them, the younger, a little girl with shy eyes, pulled on her brother’s sleeve, cupped her small hand around his ear, whispered into it, and settling back
to watch me. Her brother reluctantly but
dutifully did her talking for her, asking me if his little sister could have orange
juice.
It reminded me of the orphan in Oliver Twist who asked for more porridge. It was the look in
her eyes, her quiet but determined way of getting what she wanted under tough
circumstances., that touched me. I wanted to capture that
moment and share it with you, with as many people as possible.
Instead, you thought I was the hero. The comments praised me for being there in
the first place and helping the homeless people. I was just the cook. It wasn’t supposed to be about me, but them, homeless people and their humanity. But you can’t win them all.
On the other hand, I asked for egg and orange juice
donations and a guy reported that earlier this week he donated a gross of eggs
(a dozen dozen) and a case of frozen OJ.
So in that sense, it worked just fine.
In conclusion I don’t know what Dave in the Shack is about. Ernest Hemingway among others, and I find no
one gives more advice to writers than writers, said this:
“Write hard and clear about what hurts.”
I try to do that in a way.
I would change it though to read
“Write hard and clear about what’s true.”
It’s therapeutic to write about what hurts, but readers don’t
always share that pain. However, I think
you have a great appreciation for what’s true.
Some things, written well, hit home and resonate. That’s what I try to write. Maybe you know what I’m doing better than
me. Let me know if you can. Thanks for reading all the way to the end.
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